Respect yourself and others will respect you!

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He has been living on revenge for a few days after he felt that the other guy succeeded in bringing him to shame after he was donated  some fists that truly landed. He was at the soccer field with friends when he saw his enemy at a distance, there was nothing much he wanted right now than getting his hands on him and screw the foolishness out of him. He walked to him with great gusto and the fight was on. Yes it was on again based on the unsolved disagreements of the past and he hit him harder out of grudge and frustration. He did this to make sure that he puts him into the worst pit of shame so he would escape from the one that he placed unto him when he donated him with fists the other day. He fought like a beast, like a machine and he hits without mercy, like he was hitting a dead horse. The most popular reason why people end up in situations like this is because one of them has disrespected the other one, or they both don’t respect one another. Power without self-control comes with nothing. It doesn’t make you a man by hitting the other man out of revenge. Violence, a behaviour involving physical force filled with intensions to hurt, damage or kill someone out of anger. I know how good it feels after winning a fight. You feel great and so proud of yourself. It makes one feel like a man. But I want you to think for yourself. How many of you out there have really gained something from violating others, and how many of you have lost something valuable after violating someone? How many of you have lived with regrets after doing something without thinking? How many of you wish you could turn back the hands of time after hurting someone so badly that you have left a deep scar that will always be there? Violence can be prevented from happening. Fighting doesn’t solve anything. People talk to solve issues without placing their hands on one another. According to history, violence is the most action that has contributed so much to poverty. An attitude is a small thing that makes a big change. Do not lie to yourself, your anger brings you no good. Do not lose respect for others. Having no respect, you cease to love. And mostly, do not lose your self-respect. Respect was placed within all of us. It only takes an effort to activate it. As you grow older, negative people will always be around you, most people have lost the true meaning of humanity. Respect yourself and others will respect you.