Today, the pursuit of happiness is often touted as the ultimate goal. We are bombarded with messages urging us to seek pleasure, comfort, and ease. “Follow your bliss,” we are told, as if happiness is a destination that can be reached if we only find the right path. Yet, paradoxically, many who chase happiness as an end in itself, often find it slipping further away, replaced by a sense of emptiness and dissatisfaction.

The pursuit of happiness, as commonly understood, often centres around the accumulation of pleasurable experiences, and the avoidance of discomfort. This hedonistic approach, while appealing on the surface, can lead to a shallow existence. When happiness is seen as the absence of struggle or pain, any deviation from this ideal state can cause distress. This fragile version of happiness is easily disrupted by the inevitable challenges and setbacks of life, leading to frustration and disappointment.

Conversely, those who strive for greatness often find a more enduring and profound form of happiness. Greatness, in this context, does not necessarily mean fame or wealth. It refers to the pursuit of excellence, the commitment to a purpose larger than oneself, and the willingness to take risks and face difficulties head-on. 

This path is marked by hard work, perseverance, and a relentless drive to improve and achieve.

The journey towards greatness is inherently meaningful. It is filled with a sense of purpose and direction that provides a deep sense of fulfilment. When individuals focus on being the best version of themselves, whether in their careers, personal lives, or contributions to society, they often experience a sense of growth and achievement that transcends fleeting pleasures. This intrinsic satisfaction creates a more resilient and lasting happiness.

Studies have shown that people who are deeply committed to their goals and who work hard to achieve them report higher levels of life satisfaction. This is because the pursuit of greatness involves engaging in activities that challenge and stretch one’s abilities. Though often difficult, such activities provide a sense of accomplishment and mastery that is deeply rewarding.

Moreover, the pursuit of greatness fosters a growth mindset. Individuals with a growth mindset see challenges as opportunities to learn and improve, rather than as threats to their happiness. This perspective enhances their resilience and contributes to a more positive and proactive approach to life.

In contrast, those who chase happiness for its own sake can fall into the trap of constant comparison and entitlement. It becomes a moving target when happiness is measured by external standards, such as material wealth or social status. There will always be someone with more, leading to feelings of inadequacy and envy. Additionally, the expectation that one should always be happy can create pressure and guilt when life inevitably falls short of this ideal. The paradox of happiness lies in the fact that it cannot be directly pursued. Happiness is a byproduct of living a life of purpose, striving for excellence, and embracing the challenges that come with it. By focusing on greatness, individuals cultivate a deeper, more resilient form of happiness that can withstand the ups and downs of life. So, rather than chasing happiness, aim for greatness, and let happiness find you along the way.

*Karlos The Great

E-mail: karlsimbumusic@gmail.com.Uncommon Sense is published bi-weekly in the New Era newspaper with contributions from Karlos Naimwhaka. YouTube channel: Karlos Lokos