By Selma Neshiko
Men will often ask how women want to be treated, but they do not realise that if they paid more attention to their women they will know just what we want. In most cases women give many clues through their action, so keep that in mind while you continue reading.
Let me break it down for you. I will admit that women can be a little difficult at times but when it comes to how we want to be treated there are five ways I want to share with the men based on my own experiences and observations about how women want to be treated.
First of all, we want to feel special. This simply means doing things for your woman outside your comfort zone. We do not always want to be spoiled with luxuries, we just want to be valued. Connecting with your woman on another level at which you often do not or will not share with other women is a good example. We do not want to be treated like a princess but rather with dignity and respect. We want our men to treat us like we are the sexiest woman on the planet and that no other woman compares.
Secondly, we want loyal men. Women like the security of knowing where they stand and what they have. We hate to be cheated on. We hate it when you flirt with other girls. Most importantly, we expect a man to treat us the same way we treat them. There is only so much one heart can handle and only so much one girl can take before she breaks. If you do things behind a woman’s back when in a relationship, just because you’re trying to get a piece of that cake then you best believe that you’ll end up losing her.
Thirdly, we want to be complimented. We are beautiful. We want to hear that and often. We want you to tell us something new you love about us, compliment our new hairdo, make-up, style, work etc. Remind us of how much we really mean to you and special moments that mean a lot to you. Don’t go on about how we need to lose weight, go on a diet or gain some weight so that we look like a certain somebody. When it comes to women, every good or bad thing you do or say to us, will always be remembered in detail.
Fourthly, we want you to listen and understand. We just want to be heard, the way we share our intimate side, we expect the same from you so we can be on the same page. Listening with real intimacy is rare nowadays, but we want you to engage and participate in what we are talking about and to pay attention to what we saying. Don’t make promises when you know you don’t plan on keeping them. Don’t neglect us because we might run into someone else who will pay us a lot of attention.
Last but not least, we expect and want a relationship to end on a good note. Firstly I am sure that no matter how great a relationship may be, it never ends on a “good note” most of the time. But guys, you need to know that when you treat your women right and you have always been good to her and your relationship ends for whatever reason, she will always remember you. She will remember all the things you’ve done together, all the good memories and how you made her feel special. But also it’s all up to you, you have a choice on whether you want to treat your women right or not. Lastly, one thing you should remember is that you can never take away what you say or do to a woman because she will live with it forever and in the end you are nothing but a bad memory. Oh well, it is what it is! Eewa.