A mother’s bravery

A mother’s bravery

KALKRAND – In a calm settlement where the sun-drenched fields stretch endlessly lives Tulonga Amaguru, a 36-year-old powerhouse of a woman.

The mother of three wakes up every morning with determination and zeal to save her animals by cutting grass for them on the side of the road, a few kilometres from Kalkrand. This is because animal feed at a time when drought has gripped most of the country is forcing many to shut their kraals and crop fields.

On this afternoon, she was spotted with her three-year-old baby securely strapped to her back, sweat glistening on her brow as she tirelessly cut grass and packed it into bags. But this was no ordinary day; a testament to her incredible strength.

“As you can see, my job is to take care of the goats and sheep on that farm. This is for those animals,” Amaguru remarked, pointing with a smile towards the distant fields.

There was a calmness about her demeanour, which was striking.

She seemed completely unbothered by the laborious task at hand, which is not something one encounters every day.

“I woke up early to cut this grass before heading home to continue with my other chores,” she noted.

Dressed in sturdy boots and fitted jeans, Amaguru portrayed qualities of a dedicated worker. A crisp, white long-sleeved shirt protected her from the sun’s harsh rays, while a wide-brimmed hat shielded her face, creating a picture of resilience against the elements.

“I hail from the north, which is many kilometres away,” she shared, with a warm smile that belied the hard work etched on her face.

Like many others, she did not come all the way to play.

“I came here to create a better life for my children,” she said, with sheer determination on her face.  

Her voice carried a mixture of pride and fortitude as she continued “I have to work hard to ensure I survive and send my children to school. One of them is already in the hostel in Kalkrand.”

As the sun blazed overhead, casting golden rays on the grass, she transformed the mundane task of cutting grass into an inspiring spectacle. Each swing of her machete echoed with purpose, a rhythmic dance of labour which told a story of resilience.

With every bag filled, she wasn’t just preparing food for her animals, she was crafting a narrative that would resonate throughout her community.

“Hard work isn’t just for men,” she declared nonchalantly with a fierce smile. In a world where women often find themselves relegated to the sidelines, Amaguru boldly stepped into the spotlight, proving that strength knows no gender.

In a society where traditional roles often dictate who does what, she shattered stereotypes with each bag she filled. Her actions sent ripples through the community, igniting conversations about gender equality, and the vital role women play in agriculture.

A mother’s love

Amaguru’s commitment to her family shines through her words. Each day, she rises early to tackle the demanding tasks on the farm, driven by the hope that her efforts will pave the way for a brighter future for her children. Her story is not just about survival; it’s about love, sacrifice and an unwavering spirit that inspires those around her.

But beneath the sweat and toil lies a nurturing heart. Her three children are never far from her thoughts. As she worked under the sweltering sun, she often glanced back at her little one on her back, ensuring the baby was comfortable and safe. This duality of being both a fierce worker and a loving mother paints a rich tapestry of her life.

“I want my children to see that hard work is noble,” she shared during a brief break, wiping her brow with the back of her hand. “I want them to know that they can achieve anything if they put their minds to it.” -mndjavera@nepc.com.na