Society is grappling with a crisis of masculinity. The once-proud image of the man as a provider, protector and pillar of the community has been replaced by a disturbing trend: a relentless pursuit of pleasure and instant gratification. This shift in male values is eroding the fabric of society, leaving a trail of broken families, economic instability and a general decline in moral standards.

The contemporary man is increasingly defined by his consumption, rather than his contribution. The emphasis on material possessions, fleeting pleasures and sexual indulgence has eclipsed the virtues of hard work, discipline and commitment. In this hedonistic pursuit, the concept of duty and responsibility has taken a backseat. The result is a generation of men who are emotionally immature, lacking in ambition, and ill-equipped for the challenges of adulthood.

The consequences of this cultural shift are far-reaching. The breakdown of the traditional family unit, once the cornerstone of society, is a direct result of this crisis of masculinity. Men who prioritise pleasure over commitment are less likely to form stable relationships, leading to increased rates of divorce and single-parent households. Children raised in such environments often lack the guidance and support necessary for their own development, perpetuating a cycle of dysfunction.

Moreover, the decline of the male work ethic has contributed to economic stagnation. The emphasis on short-term rewards over long-term goals has led to a decline in productivity and innovation. A society filled with men who are more interested in leisure than labour is destined to struggle economically.

Beyond the economic implications, the pursuit of pleasure at all costs has also led to a decline in moral standards. The objectification of women, fuelled by a culture that prioritises sexual gratification, has created a climate of disrespect and violence against women. The erosion of traditional values, such as honesty, integrity and loyalty, has undermined the trust that is essential for a healthy society.

It is imperative that we address this crisis of masculinity head-on. We must redefine what it means to be a man in the 21st century. This requires a concerted effort to restore the values of hard work, discipline and responsibility. It also involves creating opportunities for young men to develop leadership skills and a sense of purpose.

Furthermore, we must challenge the pervasive culture of instant gratification that is so detrimental to young men’s development. By promoting delayed gratification and emphasising the importance of long-term goals, we can help to cultivate a generation of men who are better equipped to succeed in life and contribute positively to society.

The decline of the modern man is a serious problem with far-reaching consequences. By addressing the root causes of this crisis, we can begin to rebuild a society where men are once again seen as providers, protectors, and leaders. The future of our civilisation depends on it.

*Karlos The Great

E-mail:karlsimbumusic@gmail.com.Uncommon Sense is published bi-weekly in the New Era newspaper with contributions from Karlos Naimwhaka. YouTube channel: Karlos Lokos